Agreement F.I.R.S.T

How do you teach consent without making it awkward?

For many parents, carers and educators, consent feels like a tough topic to tackle. Where do you start? How do you keep it age-appropriate? And how do you make sure kids really understand?

Agreement F.I.R.S.T. changes that. This fun, interactive card game helps children explore what it means to give and receive consent through everyday examples and gameplay. Designed for kids aged 10 and up, the game strengthens life skills like setting boundaries, communicating clearly and recognising respectful behaviour.

What does F.I.R.S.T. stand for?

At the heart of the game is one simple truth:
Without agreement, there is no consent.

Each F.I.R.S.T. card represents an essential ingredient of a fair agreement:

  • Freely given – No pressure or force.

  • Informed – Everyone understands what they’re agreeing to.

  • Responsive – Consent can change at any time.

  • Specific – Clear about who, what, when, where and why.

  • ‘Talked’ about – Agreement is communicated clearly.

When all five ingredients are present, you’ve got a real agreement – and real consent.

Who is this game for?

Parents and carers

  • Teachers and school counsellors

  • Youth workers and psychologists

  • Community organisations and family therapists

  • Anyone who wants to raise consent-aware young people

Why this game matters.

Consent isn’t just about intimacy. It’s about how we communicate, set boundaries and respect others – every day.

By practising these skills through play, children build the confidence to make and recognise real agreements in real life. Agreement F.I.R.S.T. makes it easier to start these conversations early, when it matters most.

Agreement First Card Game.
$39.00

Agreement F.I.R.S.T. changes that. This fun, interactive card game helps children explore what it means to give and receive consent through everyday examples and gameplay. Designed for kids aged 10 and up, the game strengthens life skills like setting boundaries, communicating clearly and recognising respectful behaviour.

Free shipping Australia-wide | Ages 10+ | 2–6 players | 20–30 min

“We played this as a family with our two teenage daughters – who, as you might expect, weren’t exactly thrilled about playing a “parent game.” But to our surprise, they actually enjoyed it. Even better, it sparked a meaningful conversation about the kinds of behaviours that can lead to someone not feeling in agreement. The cards are fun and engaging, and the game offered a gentle way to talk about something that’s usually hard to bring up.”

Sarah, Parent

FAQ

  • The game is best suited for ages 10 and up. Younger players may need adult guidance the first few times they play.

  • Most games take around 20–30 minutes, making it great for classrooms, family nights or youth programs.

  • Yes. The design is based on consent education principles and is suitable for use in both family and therapeutic settings.

  • Yes. For educator or bulk orders, please contact info@agreementworks.com.au for pricing and options.

  • We currently offer free shipping within Australia. For international orders, please get in touch via email.

  • Download the printable rulebook [insert link or placeholder]. Also included in every game bo

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Build consent awareness through laughter, strategy and shared experience.